Something about Love

Posts from ‘August, 2010’

Love speaks through us..

Love speaks through us..

by an anonymous author.

If the heart could speak,
what would it say?
We try and tell of the feelings
that are deep within us from day to day..

Love is a vast emotion,
it can fill you up inside..
It can rip you apart and leave you questioning Why?

But Love was given to us as a gift
so precious and devine.
So that we can share it with others,
so that the light may through us shine.

Some of us look from day to day
deperately to just feel it.
Some of us sort through our thoughts
just trying to figure out how to reveal it

One does not know the key to it’s mystery that runs deep.
It exists always,
even while we sleep.

Love was given for a reason..

It is truly just to share.

An emotion to show someone else,

how deep down we really care!

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Love and pain

Sometimes there´s just nothing else to do.. but to wait..and wait.. and wait until the time comes. The right time to forget. No.. not forget.. FORGIVE.. Forgive for the caused pain. Forgive everything and keep only happy memories in our hearts.

This is a poem by an anonymous poet.. about love..and pain that was caused by breaking ones heart.

Even though we are no longer together.
And I no longer consider you as my lover.
My feelings mixed and mind confused.
My body feels misused and abused.
I can’t let you go even though I want to.
My thoughts are always consumed with you.
I try to move on but always lose interest.
Because of the feelings that I can’t put to rest.
How can I still want you after what you did.
Why is your voice still ringing in my head.
Will I ever be able to forget.
All the time together we spent.
I just want these feelings to go away.
Somehow I know that forever in my heart they’ll stay.
Even though I pretend that nothing is wrong and hide behind a smile.
Inside I am crying like a newborn child.
When I am alone sometimes I call out your name.
But the response I get is always the same.
A response filled with silence that adds to my pain.
All I really want is for you to love me again.
Maybe I am just to dumb or too blind to see.
That you will forever be still hurting me

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6 things that men notice first

This is an article from Cosmopolitan.

According to psychologists we get the first opinion about our dates in six seconds. Cosmopolitan conducted a research which showed what are these six things that men notice first.

Smile It can be warm or maybe polite? You can see in a moment if woman has been taking care of her teeth. (I don´t think they necessarily notice teeth.. I think they see your mood and they can feel if you´re an easy person to talk to)

Hair It doesn´t matter what color your hair are.. It´s important that they look groomed and feel soft when touched.

Cleavage Men don´t look woman`s face first, nope. They look cleavage first. (Well, yeah, that´s true for sure)

Make up- Ugly make up that looks like a war painting or carnival make up repels men for sure. They start wondering if a lady tries to hide some scary scars or acne or other skin diseases.

SkinSkin is the cleanest when you´re not under stress. You should not panic because of one pimple – men may not notice that. BUT they definitely notice your dark ugly  fake tan.

Big purse Big purse may also repel men. When they see it, they may think that this lady is too choosy or luxury lover.

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10 reasons..

This is black humor about problems in a modern world. 10 reasons how Facebook can be fatal to your relationship. Remember, it´s with humor..but there might be a little bit of truth in it. especially for teenagers ;) .

1. Phototags.
You spend your weekend separately and at the beginning of the week your friends post a photo on your wall where you hug another two men. Maybe things weren´t like that, but that´s what the photo shows at first. Of course not! That´s going to be a challenge to explain the truth to your new lover, before it´t too late.

2. Ugly profile picture.

Your virtual looks is probably a lot more important for you than for him. Why else you would be ashamed when he writes something on your wall so all your friends would see his awful haircut on his ages old photo.

3. Your relationship status.
You´re  just about to start your relationship and suddenly you find a message from your virtual mailbox, which invites you to commit yourself with him in Facebook. You don´t like to be virtually too visible and you´d prefer to do these things in real life. You don´t answer to virtual invitation, but that can be fateful. Some people consider Facebook their lives – it´s a way to show their feelings to their friends. Not answering to that invitation may be a serious negative sign to him.

4. Comments about your status.

The other chance is that you confirm the invitation, because you also want to show everyone your feelings. But what you can´t see coming, are comments from your mean acquaintances, such as: “Oh, redhead again, huh?” or ” Congratulations, I hope this one lasts longer. The most embarrassing thing is, that all these comments are seen to your other friends AND your lover.

5. Uploading ugly photos of your lover.

People are very sensitive about photos of themselves. Would you like your boyfriend adding an album containing photos of you in the morning with sleepy eyes on his profile? These photos are for your mutual friends. Ugly photos of you on his profile may cause a lot of trouble.

6. Too much or too less virtual cuddling

You really don´t go to Facebook every day to post sweet-cuddly comments to his wall. You don´t comment his every photo or status, because “real life” is much more important to you. But your partner may see things differently and he might construe your behaviour as ignorant. On the other hand you may be disturbed by your partners excessive public “cuddling”. He doesn´t dare to kiss you on the street, but writes it on your Facebook wall..

7. Jealousy

He makes friends everyday, but only with very beautiful girls. He has 682 friends and they keep coming. On your working trip most of the day you try to track his virtual  trails (photos, comments, friend invitations). You want to be sure that none of these girls are added for potential dates.

8. Waste of time
He opens Facebook 34 times a day. He puts a comment to every photo his friend or acquaintance has added. On his working time he doesn´t care about making a career, he plays mafiagames. And he does it on your romantic date. Facebook CAN be a waste of time!

9. Joining a wrong group.

You have to pay attention which sites and groups you´re joining. It would be catastrophic, if you joined a group “getting wasted” and he id an abstainer. At the same time it would be sad if he joins a group “Gentleman prefers blondes” and you´re a brunet.

10. Sneaking in his mailbox.

He is taking a shower at the moment AND his Facebook homepage is opened! Would you be able to resist temptation to sneak around in his mailbox a little? Be careful! You may discover some little things that cause unnecessary quarrels. Even worse would be getting caught by him!

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10 reasons..

..why guys don´t approach you. Well..I´m not sure these are true.. but think about it! You may wanna fix some of these things in your life;)

1. You´re surrounded by too many friends.

When girls are in a group, a man can be sure that he will be judged as soon as he leaves. It´s hard to approach to even one girl, let alone the whole group.

2. You´re too hot!

When a woman is too hot, men often assume that they have no chance. Most of them still try their luck. It´s a great way to raise your self-esteem, why guys won´t approach you: “I´m just so hot that I scare them away!”

3. You´re a bit drunk.

If you´re too drunk and dancing like a stripper, guys may look at you.. But it´s hard to approach to a whirling lady and no one is taking you seriously. Sometimes men really lay an eye on a drunk girl, but they have only one thing in mind!

4. You look  lousy.

Men usually don´t approach women looking like hobos.

5. You´re in a bad mood.

Nice smile is inviting, but being angry makes an impression that you´re too good for everybody. That keeps people away. Radiate optimism and more men want to talk to you.

6. You´re with any other man.

You look committed when you arrive or date with other guys. Men don´t know if you´re single or not. Some may ask, but some move on to another lady who looks more single to them.

7. You have a ring.

How many guys know exactly on which hand on which finger you should wear your wedding or engagement ring? Single women wear any kind of rings. When one of them looks like a wedding ring, it may repel guys away.

8. You´re busy.

It´s easier to approach a girl who looks bored. When she reads a book or entertains herself in a laptop, a man assumes that she´s busy and she doesn´t want to deal with anyones stupid approaching-acts.

9. You´re hard to  catch – literally

When a woman moves in a fast pace or she has a gang of friends with her, it´s just not possible to start conversation with her.

10. You´re a potflower.

If  the whole evening you´re sitting in a corner or you´re burried under a pile of tables and chairs, you´re basically cut from the rest of the world. No guy wants to crawl under a table to talk to you. If you want a man to approach you, move around and try to sit in different places.

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PS. I Love You

Few days ago I saw one really sad movie. It´s about love between two people and what happens after one of them is dead. When you watch it, be aware.. you may not be able to stop crying for a while!

There´s a description of the movie:

On a country road in Ireland over ten years ago, it was love at first sight for Holly, a lost young tourist (Academy Award® winner, Hilary Swank), and Gerry, a charming local lad (Gerard Butler). Hollys formidable mother, (Kathy Bates), disapproved of the couple, concerned that her spirited daughter was too young for marriage. In the years since, the once fearless Holly has become unsure of her own identity. When Gerry dies with a brain tumor and leaves Holly a widow just shy of her thirtieth birthday, her family and best friends (Lisa Kudrow, Gina Gershon) are concerned that she will never emerge from her takeout container-strewn Manhattan apartment. After weeks holed up watching old movies, a birthday cake and tape recording message from Gerry mysteriously arrives, marking the beginning of a series of letters instructing her to perform unusual requests. With the help of her girlfriends, Holly begins a year of wild adventures and a life journey that Gerry has planned for her, helping her to discover who she is without him and reminding her – p.s. I Love You.

I loved it and I hope so do you.


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Swan Love

Did you know a pretty interesting fact about swans?  When one swan dies..the other one flies up to the sky as far as it can..then turns its head towards the land and drops itself dead.  Just because they can´t and won´t live without each other. Sad, but true.

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Endless Love

I really liked a poem by an anonymous person. It makes sence, all that´s been said.

When tears never fall, and birds never fly.
Winter never ends, and children never cry.
When the nights are not dark, and the days are not light.
When forever does finally end, and the eyes have no sight.
When ears cannot hear, and the grass never grows.
When silence is too loud, and the genius never knows.
When strength doesn’t strengthen, and flowers never bloom.
When hearts can’t be broken, and eternity is too soon.
When the wind never blows, and the rain is never wet.
When thunder can’t be heard, and the sun refuses to set.
When angels don’t protect, and a fact is not true.
When life can’t be lived, and the sky is not blue.
When the truth is a lie, and the fake becomes so real.
The clock shows no time, and wounds never heal.
When enjoyment isn’t fun, and bells cannot ring.
When a race cannot be won, and a singer cannot sing.
When pain does not hurt, and enemies never fight.
When rainbows have no color, and something wrong seems so right.
When all these things finally happen, when they finally come true.
That’s when I, without a doubt, will stop loving you.

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Hello world!

Welcome to my NEW blog! I´m here to find out what Love REALLY means..I hope to hear your opinions about Love, hate, Friendship and many many other things. Ofcourse – related to Love. I´d like to hear your stories about people you´ve found..and people you´ve lost.  I´d like to tell mine.  I´d like to find the truth.. Truth about Love.

Facts and poems..movies and songs.. stories and pictures.. they all tell us something!  Just listen!;)

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